Opinion | A single question with unlimited potential

This piece is about questioning the decisions you make by taking a closer look at who you are as a person. By writing this I hope to challenge readers to think about who they are and what they want out of life. Photo by Tyler Scheetz

In high school, a teacher asked my class, “Who are you?” Instead of brushing off the question, his words repeated in my mind like a record with a scratch. When I realized that I wasn’t able to come up with an answer, I was faced with a second question; why didn't I know who I was?

Tyler Scheetz, sophomore strategic and corporate communications major.

As a kid, you try to find something to fill the gaps of boredom between the hours of the day. You explore hobbies and experience friendships. What most kids don’t explore is their identity and what makes them an individual. 

But what is so important about understanding yourself?

The only person that will always be there for you through all the highs and lows is yourself. By learning about yourself, you gain insight into what you wish to get out of life. Some enjoy the bliss of not overthinking but breaking down your walls to uncover who you are is the first step to exploring the depth of individuality. 

I grew up with divorced parents, so I often found myself stuck with my own company. Many days I would scramble to find distractions that would keep my intrusive thoughts at bay. Upon hearing the question, “Who are you?” I began defining the characteristics that I hold. 

As I attempted to answer this question, I somehow became too comfortable with myself. Instead of spending time with friends and family, I would find comfort in being alone. It took me a while to learn that isolation prevents you from learning from others and growing. Everything in moderation is an important lesson I wish I had picked up  sooner. Without new perspectives, a person can only evolve so much.

After a couple of years fixated on the question, I was almost too in tune with my emotions. Everyone I pass can see when I’m in a bad mood. Fighting these emotions that were bleeding through my every word made it difficult to re-enter the realm of socialization. 

But once I realized that people and relationships are necessary to a fulfilled life, I started breaking down my walls and letting others in. 

Starting from the bottom, I knew it would be a long journey to rediscover the social person I once was. Throughout the challenges on my trek, I was finally able to find myself again; knowing that no matter what happens I can deal with it on my own. 

It's certainly a bittersweet conclusion, but it will help you see the bigger picture. We are only watching the trailer of the movie that our lives will become. The sooner you grasp that the world is just a playground for you to leave your imprint, the sooner you can start your life. You have the choice and power to do whatever you want. 

The only person stopping you from obtaining your desires is you. Becoming in tune with your inner voice will give you unlimited potential to reach heights you never dreamed of reaching. It's never too late to start building this relationship. 

So, I ask you now, who are you?